How often do we let circumstances dictate our choices and hinder us from truly living? It's a common trap we all fall into but let me share a powerful truth: the circumstance itself is never the real problem. It doesn't have the power to create obstacles; it's us who unintentionally impose limitations on ourselves by relying too heavily on these circumstances.
Sure, it might seem easier to lean on circumstances in the moment, but let's think about the long run. Are these self-imposed restrictions truly serving us? More often than not, they are just habits that we've developed over time. What would it be like to venture into a new habit that honors you?
Now, I get it - some might be thinking, "She doesn't know MY situation." But honestly, are our circumstances really so unique? Whether it's being busy, overworked, underpaid, or feeling inadequate, these things aren't the root cause of our problems. The real power lies within us to own our choices, instead of letting our circumstances own us.
We all possess the incredible power of choice: to set boundaries, to say "no" when needed, or confidently say "yes!" to opportunities. We can connect with friends, kickstart a new fitness routine, take up that drum lesson we've always wanted, or even embrace the spontaneity of booking a flight to the South of France when the urge strikes. Seriously – no matter how insane it sounds, we do have the power to choose it.
Life is too precious to be held back by self-imposed limitations.
Here's a challenge: start to notice the times when you begin leaning on a circumstance, pause, and then consciously make a choice that is most rewarding.