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The Most Important Measurement of Success

  • Writer: Alison Conigliaro-Hubbard
    Alison Conigliaro-Hubbard
  • 4 days ago
  • 2 min read

๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—œ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดโ€”๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ, ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ, ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜†โ€”๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฝ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€. ๐—œ๐˜ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€โ€”๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ.


I got a DM from an old friend/colleague. We worked together in a couple of companies 20+ years ago. At the first, I knew him as a demanding, in-your-face, brash enterprise seller from the New York Metro regionโ€”killing his quota and taking names.


Then he joined the large competitor where Iโ€™d already landed. It felt like an old friend joining forces. It was good to have him as part of the tight-knit team as we built what would become a multi-billion-dollar business.


We hadnโ€™t spoken in years, but on Friday he messaged saying he wanted to talk. I didnโ€™t know what it was about, but Iโ€™m always ready to catch up with friends from back in the day.


After a few early appointments, I saw heโ€™d left a voicemail:


ย โ€œ๐™„ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™—๐™–๐™™ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌ๐™จ, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™  ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช. ๐˜พ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ข๐™š ๐™—๐™–๐™˜๐™ .โ€


I got home to my office and called. He told me heโ€™d been diagnosed with Stage 4 pancreatic cancer. He had finished initial chemo and was starting another round focused on his liver.


He shared that his priorities now are his family, palliative care, and peace. He talked about his kidsโ€”18, 23, and 36โ€”and how proud he is of each.


Heโ€™s been speaking with his priest to find peace in the process. He was in good spirits, and said he wanted to reach out to the people who had influenced his life. I was one of them.


He told me Iโ€™d always been helpful, kind, courteous, and respectful.


As a former product marketer, I suppose that balance of โ€œhelpfulโ€ and โ€œrespectfulโ€ describes the bonds I built with my partners in sales and product.


Thereโ€™s so much emotion in hearing that I made a difference in someoneโ€™s lifeโ€”especially when they are facing the hardest of times.


As I sit here reflecting on what REALLY matters...


Itโ€™s not about how many times we killed the quota, looked good to our bosses, or jammed 10 extra emails into the day.


Itโ€™s about how we care for peopleโ€”the lasting connections we make along the way. Iโ€™ve learned this lesson many times, and this call underscored it again.


Itโ€™s about building enough trust and respect in each otherโ€™s humanityโ€ฆ so that even in lifeโ€™s darkest moments, someone you once worked alongside might reach out and include you in the small group of people who shaped them.


I am deeply, deeply moved.


๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜†, ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ. ๐—œโ€™๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ.


And if you donโ€™t think this applies to success in business, I encourage you to reconsider.




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